Personal Values

1. Intellectual curiosity
2. Adventurous spirit
3. Self-awareness
4. Independence
5. Spiritual growth
6. Self-love
7. Authenticity
8. Open-mindedness
9. Intimate relationships
10. Long-term thinkingJust in case you are into personality tests, I'm:
- ENTJ
- 8w7
- Inventor.
- O(73)C(54)E(56)A(1)N(39)
- Earth Dragon, Sagittarius
- The Manifesting GeneratorHere is my life philosophy to show my life principles.

Core value

I have my philosophy of living and am aware of my limited understanding of everything.I expect you to have the intellectual curiosity to explore truth and beauty with an open mind. I enjoy having rational debates and discussions on different topics now and then.I believe love is not gifted but learned and earned. Therefore, we must commit and review our relationship monthly or quarterly to keep it healthy.I expect both of us to organise romantic dates, communicate transparently, and protect each other’s private space with mutual efforts.My relationship is built on trust, respect and empathy.

Health

Since I’m the same height as Lady Gaga, I’m weirdly attracted to tall people (over 5’10”) with the mind of balancing our next generation (negotiable depends on biotechnology).I do a whole body check at least once a year and have done a DNA test. Lucky enough, I’m very healthy :) I expect you to prove your health status and fitness level.I sometimes practise intermittent fasting (noon to 8 pm) or only eat one meal a day. Occasionally, I adjust my timetable to socialise. Let’s have mutual respect for each other’s already-formed daily routine.I meditate daily and take at least 14 days off yearly to go to meditation or psychedelic retreats.

Finance

I’m the only child from a middle-class family with a long traceable history. My dad is a university professor, and my mum works in a Fortune 500 insurance company. They are very independent and happily live in China without any financial burdens.I used to work in big corporates with a six-figure income, but now I focus on pursuing my artistic journey on writing, stage performance and working on a contract or project basis. Ideally, you have an entrepreneurial spirit on the same path, so we can learn from each other and grow together.I live a minimal life and invest hugely in my fitness and personal growth. My digital spending exceeded my physical expenditures in 2021, which means I have zero interest in unnecessary physical goods. I won’t interfere with your spending habit, but ideally, you are not playing a status game.The most crucial part is to have an aligned financial goal in our long-term relationship and allocate our time and energy toward building financial freedom together.

Family life

I have lived as a digital nomad for a while and now I'm committing to one place and cultivating stable relationships. I consider China and New Zealand as home. Ideally, you won't mind exploring these two countries and learning about the lifestyle and cultures that impact my early life. I'll do the same for you!I value my work and sleep, so I question the default way of sharing a bedroom every night. It would be great to have our independent rooms for working and sleeping (btw, I LOVE cuddling and good sex and won't mind sleeping together but not EVERY DAY).I am open to having children and see both of us as role models for our kids and can provide them with enough attention, love, financial resources and guidance to let them be who they want to be.

Bonus points

- Speak multiple languages and live in different cities and countries.
- Have friends from different backgrounds and cultures.
- Be a good playmate with me (e.g. cosplay, watch live sports and try/learn new experiences/skills together)